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News and October Awesomeness

SLEEP

First I will start out this post by letting you all know that I have recovered from my night of no sleep on Sunday.  I slept for 10 hours last night and hopefully broke the 2 am trend I’ve been allowing myself to get into.  Thank you for all your thoughts and concern my way.  Its a scary experience getting no sleep.  Your mind starts to spin and you feel almost like the insane people you see in the movies- unglued.  It’s very weird.

Some good advice from Elder Holland.  Photo is from my mission
Some good, if challenging, advice for the insomniac from Elder Holland. Photo is from my mission

EXCITING NEWS

So I have some exciting news for all of you faithful readers.  I am going to get the chance to guest blog for my friend Samantha Ferraro on her food blog http://littleferrarokitchen.com/  I am going to be doing a more professional version of my post from last year Thanksgiving for One and I’m really excited!  I have gotten a new camera (something I’ve wanted to do for some time) and am going to work with my Dad to take some great food photos and give tips for cooking for 1.  I figure if I can show people how to cook thanksgiving for 1 they can extrapolate the skills and cook any meal for 1.

NANOWRIMO

On that note, are there any of you that might be interested in guest posting on  my blog in November?  I am going to be doing nanowrimo and will be be posting but probably not as frequently as I have been doing in the last few months (I’ve been on a role lately!).

Speaking of Nanowrio I am really excited for my next book.  I’ll give you the basic summary.  It is a Christmas chick lit book about 2 women, life long, friends- one a stay at home army Mom and the other a single career woman- who love but envy each other’s lives.  One day they wish to Santa that they could live the other person’s life and through his magic he makes them switch places, freaky friday style.  Hilarity ensues.  Think Hallmark movies with maybe a touch more edge.  I’m going to have Santa as the narrator and he is a bit sarcastic and funny. What do you think?  Would you read that?

RANTING AND RAVING

So, I was kind of sad today.  I found out that they are only going to have current members on my old singles ward facebook page so I won’t find out about activities any more.  My last tenuous tie cut…I only have one friend there anyway.  Most of my other friends from the ward are on missions or going on missions (which is awesome!).  Anyway, its silly thing because I hardly went to any activities but I guess it just said to me ‘that part of your life is over. Move on’.  That made me cry.

I know life isn’t fair but it’s not fair.  I shouldn’t be allowed to live my faith one way for 14 years and then bam its all pulled out from under me in a week. Do you know how shocking that is?  I’ve always been more comfortable in the majority than minority and in the family ward I’m a definite minority.

I feel like I’ve tried hard but I haven’t made any friends in the family ward.  Everyone is too busy and you don’t get a chance to meet anyone because there aren’t any activities, or hardly any.  I miss FHE.  I miss firesides and activities. I need to go to institute in Lehi for the midsingles but I haven’t had great luck with the midsingles functions. It’s so different every time you go that you can’t really get to know anyone.

Yes, I’m complaining but this is my blog and I can do that from time to time.  It just made me sad that’s all. I’ll get over it.

A RING AND OTHER SHOPPING

On happy news I have all of my Christmas shopping done except for my roommate!  Crazy right.  I got some cute stuff.  I kept stumbling on stuff I think they will really love and I didn’t spend a ton of money.

Also, I got a ring from my box of happies last month that I liked but the band was cheap so I had the local jeweler make me a new band.  I just love it so much!

Designed by me. I love that! Something totally unique
Designed by me. I love that! Something totally unique

Also, if you haven’t checked out the Poler website do.  They have outerwear, Nike shoes and tons of cool hats for winter.  Would be great for Christmas gifts.  Check out yours truly:

You could say I wear many hats for Poler
You could say I wear many hats for Poler

I got a new sign from the great etsy shop The Sign Post.  Love them both.  They were a great company to work with because I had originally spelled TS Eliot’s name with two Ts and they caught it and corrected it.  I think they are pretty great.

signs

Another great find is called The Protein Bakery.  I saw them on the food network and they are treats made with protein that I actually like!  They also contain mostly wheat free flours (not technically gluten free because the facilities process wheat but wheat free flours).  I was so impressed and I normally hate that kind of thing.  My gag reflex is super strong at protein additives but these are yummy

protein factory

I also got to try these cookies from Cheryls bakery and they were delicious.  They have a service on their website where you can send a cookie-gram.   I think that is super cute and seriously one of the best baked goods I’ve tried.

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I have also had a great time trying out more boxes in the last month.  Check out some of my youtube videos for favorites:

 

 

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Wilde Wisdom

Today I have had a lot on my mind.  Trying to decide to have surgery, getting immersed in a new ward (which went great btw.  More on that to come)etc.  Where did I turn?- yes to the scriptures, prayer and friends but also to Mr.  Oscar Wilde and his play An Ideal Husband.  Who would have thought that a gay man from the late 19th century would have so much to to teach a Mormon girl in 2012.

The play is about a politician who has a past unbeknownst to all of his friends including the silly Lord Goring. Unfortunately this past is used as blackmail and all pandemonium breaks free.  Well, here are some quotes that made me laugh and some that made me think:

Lord Arthur Goring: Fashion is what one wears oneself. What is unfashionable is what other people wear. Other people are quite dreadful. The only possible society is oneself.

Lord Caversham: I don’t know how you stand society. A lot of damned nobodies talking about nothing.
Lord Arthur Goring: I love talking about nothing, Father. It’s the only thing I know anything about.

Lord Caversham: Do you always understand everything you say?
Lord Arthur Goring: Yes… if I listen attentively.

Lord Arthur Goring: I’m sorry, Father, but the truth is, this is not my day for talking seriously.
Lord Caversham: Well, what do you mean, sir?
Lord Arthur Goring: I mean that I only talk seriously on the first Tuesday of every month. Between noon and three.

Mabel: Lord Goring, I gather you’re to be congratulated.
Lord Arthur Goring: Well, there’s nothing I like more than to be congratulated, though invariably I find the pleasure immeasurably increased when I know what for.
Lord Arthur Goring: There’s somebody I want to you talk to.
Lord Caversham: What about?
Lord Arthur Goring: About me, sir.
Lord Caversham: Not a subject on which much eloquence is possible.

Lord Arthur Goring: Rather than risk losing your love, he would do anything. Has he not been punished enough?
Gertrude: We’ve both been punished. I set him up too high.
Lord Arthur Goring: Do not set him down now too low.

(I like this one when thinking of couples I know after a break up.  Someone once too high, suddenly becomes too low.)

Lord Arthur Goring: Gertrude, it is not the perfect, but rather the imperfect who have need of love.
Gertrude: You seem to know a great deal about it all of a sudden.
Lord Arthur Goring: Oh, I hope not. All I know, Gertrude, is that it takes great courage to see the world in all its tainted glory, and still to love it. And even more courage to see it in the one you love. Gertrude, you have more courage than any woman I have ever known. Do not be afraid now to use it.

I think that last one is true of yourself.  Don’t you have those moments where you see yourself in all its tainted glory? I do.  Have had those moments lately (something about turning 31. You must face your own mortality, your own value to the world).  I feel closer to God and Jesus Christ than ever before.  In fact, I haven’t felt their presence as palpably in my life since my mission.

It is certainly true that ‘it is not the perfect, but rather the imperfect who have need of love.’ I’m proof of that!  We all are.  (Unless the perfect man really is out there and if so please show yourself to me at once!)

It reminds me of one of my favorite speeches The Solitude of Self by Elizabeth Cady Stanton:

“To guide our own craft, we must be captain, pilot, engineer; with chart and compass to stand at the wheel; to watch the winds and waves, and know when to take in the sail, and to read the signs in the firmament over all. It matters not whether the solitary voyager is man or woman; nature, having endowed them equally, leaves them to their own skill and judgment in the hour of danger, and, if not equal to the occasion, alike they perish.”

There are moments in life when you get to know yourself- Aren’t those tough? but we need them to see our true potential.  Working on that right now, the solitude of self…