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So I have been working in my new marketing career for a year but in some ways it feels like it has really only been since about February. A lot of the first 8 months was spent doing research but not really marketing. Then in the winter I started posting on social media for the brands and it has been an interesting, rewarding experience. One of the things that I’ve had to learn is the difference between my hobby activities and professional. As a hobbyist my inclination is to always produce more content even if it isn’t perfect but still make it solid, readable. I’m very proud of my blog but if I waited till everything was perfectly edited then I would never post anything. You can’t build a community like that.
As a hobbyist you also have limited windows to jump on opportunities and so you go for it. Like if someone wants to do a collaboration with me they don’t have months of planning to get it out. No most of the time it is a couple of weeks and we get the videos out. If I waited to research and plan everything then it wouldn’t happen and they’d move on to someone else. Right now on my facebook page I am posting a giveaway for a Target Beauty box and I have 319 entries which given my small fry status I think is pretty good. (Still 3 more days to enter http://gvwy.io/kk65w9 and if you haven’t followed me on facebook please do).
In my career I initially took this same approach into marketing. Diving into a giveaway without a ton of planning but figuring we ‘just needed to get things going’. It did work pretty well and we got a fair amount of tweets and followers for the products, which I am proud of. However, we also had all these contacts that we didn’t know what to do with. As a hobbyist I would email them and send them to my blog but it isn’t that simple with a business. All that kind of content has to be screened, approved, and made consistent with a thousand other factors.
It can be a little frustrating when I have an idea I know would work and want to pump it out but I have to keep pursuing it little bit by little bit. My inclination is to just give it a shot like I would in my content but that would be a mess for a large company. Still you see the tug of war I play?
So what I’ve had to do is continually remind myself to ‘slow down and make perfect’. At first I thought if I put in 40 hours (maybe more) even though I’m being paid for 30 it would look great for me, but I actually found it didn’t. On certain projects it does but I found it creates too much on my side and it is better if I take my time and make it the best. More content is not the solution. Even in project like gathering and researching Mommy bloggers, getting a list of a thousand content creators isn’t very helpful. What they need is 20 or so carefully researched. It’s just a slower pace than I would do on my own.
Not sure if that makes sense but the interesting thing as I have forced myself to slow down I have learned a lot. It reminds me of when I was a little girl my Mom making me slow down and measure a goose poster I had to draw. I hated her for it at the time but it was a good drawing in the end and I learned way more than if I were to rush. With the content being pretty strong it makes my coworkers happier because I am in a sense wading through the less good stuff first and only showing them the cream of the crop (not that it can’t always be better).
Anyway, it’s just a change in how things are done from a hobbyist to a professional. One of many such changes I am sure I will be absorbing in the next few years of this new career. The cool thing is I think it has made my content better right along with the work content and so in reality it is a win-win.
I think these videos turned out very nicely. (Although still far from perfect!).
Also check out the movie blog because I feel like several of my posts have been very strong especially a recent spoiler filled review I did of Inside Out.
Like the saying goes you live and learn. In the meantime I am working to ‘slow down and make perfect’
Thank you for all your support all these years with my less than perfect content and helping me to grow and improve. Thank you so much!!!
Today marks the end of an era in my life. It is my last official day working in accounting (at least for the foreseeable future). It’s been 10 years since I got behind a desk taking a simple secretarial job never dreaming it would dictate the next decade of my life. I still can’t believe it!
If you had asked me when I was growing up or even in college if I would work in accounting for 10 years I would have said you were nuts. I’ve always been cluttered and bad at math. Little did I know that accounting actually has very little to do with math. It has everything to do with routines and organizing data.
In some ways it was a good career for me and maybe not a surprise I ended up there. I am great with routines and am extremely fast at data entry. I am also someone that can do the same thing over again and not grow tired of it. I could eat the same thing, see the same movie and be fine. That part of accounting never bothered me.
What was difficult was I seemed to be prone to errors especially at the beginning because it was all new. It seemed at first I was inventing new ways all the time on how to mess up the check run (I can’t believe no check runs! Wow!). These mistakes were always caught by one check and balance or another but it was still humiliating and it didn’t help that my manager at the time rubbed them in my face and made me feel ashamed of my work.
She was the wicked witch of my life. Not only the worst boss I’ve ever had but one of the worst people. She manipulated me (and everyone else) so that I found myself apologizing when I had actually done good work. Imagine what it was like when I made mistakes. I put up with her for 3 years because I lacked the courage to quit my job but finally in December 2007 I had enough! In one of my proudest moments I walked out and into nothing to begin the great economic year of 2008 (seriously who quits their job in 2008. That’s how bad it was). Kierkegaard talks about the great leap of faith and how it has to be perfect or it is illogical to believe. That moment in my life was as close as I’ve ever gotten to the perfect leap. There wasn’t a doubt in my mind it was the right thing to do.
Everything good that has happened to me in my life has been a response to that leap including starting this blog! I was unemployed and decided in May 2008 to blog how I was feeling. Honestly I felt like I needed healing after such an intense period (some of you may think I’m exaggerating but it was a time of deep depression and anxiety for me working in that job. Only God knows how tough it really was).
At that time I graduated from my MBA and thought I would go work in marketing or maybe human resources but over 40 interviews and nothing. My Dad asked me if I wanted to help manage his properties and I did that full time for about a year (thanks Dad!). I learned that even if I was doing some accounting work I was happier working from home and being my own boss. I felt free and it was exhilarating. I also moved to Draper during this time.
Then I got the offer to work part time in marketing for Grabber, which I did giving at warmers at local events (remember my old Grabber van?). But that was quickly dissolved and they needed help with accounting so back I went but this time I was working from home which was pretty good.
My next boss Kevin was a delight and I began working full time for Impact, Grabber and my brother’s new company Poler. I would go up to Syracuse, Utah once a week and print checks and do other mind numbingly boring tasks that nobody in all 3 companies wanted to do. That’s the history of my time in accounting. Because I was so fast if there was someone who didn’t want to do something I would get the job which was generally okay with me. One of the worst projects was entering 27,000 lines of inventory into quickbooks for Impact. So boring! (it was then that I got into podcast listening because it distracted me a little bit without being too much).
Then the company’s were sold and Kevin moved over to exclusively Impact while I stayed working for Grabber and Poler. Each week I did more and more for Poler until I was working for Grabber only managing their sales tax. I became the queen of sales tax.
Then they sold Poler and eventually Grabber was sold to Kobayashi. In 2013 I went from working at Grabber to Poler full time and then to part time last summer. My boss at Poler is a woman named Kelly and she is a total delight. I will really miss working with her. The part time work was a little bit of a safety net as I am working 30 hours in my marketing work for Kobayashi and it gave me a full 40 hours with Poler but it feels good to sever the ties and focus solely on my new job. (well except for my Dad’s rentals).
The problem with all of this work is it was never ending. I was grateful for it but because I worked from home there was no separation between my life and work and if I didn’t do certain things they just didn’t get done. In the case of accounts payable that is a major problem or payroll. It has to get done! So there was many a time when I was sick as a dog and printing out checks or entering data into a computer in Hawaii or California. It was also sometimes hard to go home because my father was my boss and it meant I couldn’t relax because I was always working or thinking about work. No breaks.
But I got to work from home so it was worth it. The very idea of going to back ‘cubicle Hell’ as I like to call it makes me nauseous. It will be very tough for me after working from home for the last 7 years. I pray every day that nothing will change in that department.
Fortunately things are looking great in my new marketing job and I really feel like I have scored the job lottery. I couldn’t be more happy. Every day I am learning new things and honing my craft. It is so satisfying!
I am nothing but grateful for those years in accounting. It was a journey I needed to go on and it sustained me for 10 years. It helped me buy my home and do so many amazing things. I never felt completely whole doing accounting and had decided it was just a compromise I was going to have to make in life. It was the card I had been dealt career-wise and at a certain point (8 years in!) you have to accept what God has given you and not be miserable all the time.
So I am grateful but getting this new job has taught me to always maintain a sliver of hope. Good things do come to those who wait and work in the sphere God has set them in. I wasn’t anticipating a career change. It came out of nowhere but like I said it has been a dream come true.
And now one door is closed and another is 100% starting, no safety net. I hope I can eventually be made full time with my new career but I will wait patiently and do my very best. In some ways it is actually nice having 10 more hours a week to do personal projects like my youtube channel (but I want the 40 don’t get me wrong!). There are times and seasons for everything and just like my accounting career morphed and changed I’m sure this new job will do the same. I can’t wait to see where it takes me!
10 years of accounting is done! Hurray! (I don’t know if anyone but me will read this rambling post but it is my story which I needed to write out). Sure love you guys and to 10 years of marketing!
So it’s here! 1000 posts! Can you believe it? I’ve thought of a lot of different things I could do to celebrate but after sharing my favorite post for 999 I thought I would take a look at my very first post on this blog.
Before I start I will say that I in no means make light of those who are without work and facing the extreme trial of unemployment. My experience was unique and from the perspective of a young 28 year old girl who finally found a happy spot in her life.
May 12, 2008 I wrote The Freedom of Joblessness.At the time I had been unemployed for 5 months and because I had been so unhappy in my previous job it was not as difficult a time as you might expect.
It was exciting and it felt like I had a renewed lease on life. I had also just graduated with my MBA in April. At the time it seemed like I had been set free from a corporate penitentiary and I wanted to blog about it!
“So, this is my first foray into the world of blogging… It is hard to describe my last 6 months but let me just say that I am in the job hunt and I couldn’t be happier. I honestly think I will be a bit sad when I have to go back into the work force”
At my previous job a manager made my life miserable and being free from her influence did so much good for my self confidence and over all happiness. I think that was a large amount of the freedom I felt. I said “after a bit of a breakdown last year I needed a change more than anything”…
I then share a quote “I would rather be doing nothing than doing something I hate”
But that sounds so lazy I hear you say. I elaborate
“The thing…is that I haven’t been doing nothing. When did we get it in our head that the only viable thing for a person to do is work? I have actually been very busy. In fact, I have been doing things that I actually love that I don’t have time for when I am working including doing some writing, making a cookbook for my mom, and exercising on a regular basis”
I think there is something to that. Why do we have this assumption that if a person isn’t participating in paid labor they are doing nothing? If I won the lottery and could make it I would quit my job in a heartbeat even though I love my job now.
The amazing thing is about 10 days after this post my Dad asked me to start working managing his rentals. I did that for about a year working from home. Before I knew it I was working for Grabber part time. Then full time and then over to Poler, Now Kobayashi All working from home!
When I look at everything good in my life including this blog it all started with the tough decision to quit my job. To place my happiness above all the other factors and go for it. That joy felt freeing and peaceful and it still does and perhaps that’s why I keep blogging. It was liberating then and it is liberating now!
To 1000 more posts!
Anyway, when I purchased my home one of my concerns was how I would handle repairs. I am not a very detail oriented person and so things like repairs or assembly I am not great at. When I was at the rental I could call the landlord and have things taken care of easy-peasy. The few times I was put in charge of a repair project at my Dad’s rentals it did not go very well. I’m great at making calls but not the actual labor part.
In addition, my father, who is great at such things, is in California and I don’t have anyone else in my family nearby who is able to help. (And it doesn’t have to be a man but I don’t know any women either). You see why I was concerned before the move!
Luckily I have a new house so things have been relatively incident free. However, the last few weeks I had to fix a pocket door handle and install a new kitchen faucet. My Mom’s cousin fixed the door but I had a hard time finding anyone to help me with the faucet.
I put it on my facebook I needed help. Asking my friends if they knew anyone who was handy and could help me wiht the faucet. To my surprise the answer was no. And then I called my home teacher and he couldn’t think of anyone either. Eventually I texted a friend and her brother in law came over and the faucet was installed.
Still, I was surprised how few men out there have basic handyman skills. It seems like it wasn’t that long ago when such abilities were standard operating procedure for men. I guess that’s a stereotype so maybe it is a good thing but are we also raising kids without practical skills? I certainly don’t have those kind of abilities so I can’ t judge anyone else but it does seem like a little bit of a loss.
Shouldn’t we be teaching these kinds of skills to both boys and girls? I do know how to change a flat tire and check my oil but things around the house I am totally clueless. I guess I always had a Dad who could do those things and I assumed there would be people like that in my life. Now at least I’ve found that to be tough to find.
Luckily after about 2 weeks of searching I found my friends brother in law but it was quite the needle in the haystack! It shouldn’t be that hard.
What do you think? Should we be teaching these type of home repair skills to kids or is it just a new era where we are all digital and that kind of work is hired out? It seems like a loss and it certainly makes life tough for us single girls sometimes!
At least I have a new faucet installed. Hurray!
If you are someone who doesn’t like to read travelogues of other peoples vacations this post is not for you! I recently returned from a half business/half fun trip and it was a great experience. The work part was very effective and rewarding and the vacation part super fun. I posted on Thursday about my food tour of Atlanta which was a wonderful way to be introduced to the city.
This trip was a solo trip which some people find very intimidating and it can be but it has its advantages. First of all, you can do whatever you want. If you want to eat at the same place for all 3 meals you can. If you want to sleep in till noon you can. It’s your trip and you don’t have to worry about anyone else’s opinion or tastes. You can also go at your own pace which for me is a huge advantage. I’m a tough person to travel with because I am slow and need to rest frequently. Sometimes if I’m with others I feel guilty holding them back but by myself I can just walk in my way and savor the experience.
Traveling solo can be very rejuvenating when with others it can be more exhausting but still fun. Either way I encourage you to take advantage of what opportunities come your way. I’m so glad I stretched a business trip into a little solo trip. There was no option to travel with another person so I took advantage of the chance I had and I’d encourage you to do the same.
I had a pimento cheese omelet with bacon, grits, biscuit and fried green tomatoes. It was good but I kind of wished I had ordered the pancakes. I figured I could order pancakes anywhere but they looked so good. I try to get local flavors when I visit new places and I’m glad I did. This was my second time eating fried green tomatoes and I’m not a huge fan of the dish. Something about the texture of big warm tomatoes isn’t my favorite. Live and learn!
After a pleasant brunch I went to the Martin Luther King historic site. It was a neat place and I left feeling inspired by the words of Dr King and the courage the Civil Rights movement showed. The site is very large with 5 buildings including visitors center, Ebenezer Baptist Church (MLK’s first church), Auburn St restored firehouse, MLK tomb and Freedom Walk, and MLK birthplace. It was all put together very well with lots of volunteers which I feel gives a heart to the tours you don’t get with paid tour guides.
In the visitors center they have a recreation of the Selma bridge march and you can stand amongst the figures and feel a little bit of what it might have been like. All the exhibits were very well done with a mixture of video, memorabilia and more hands on like the statues.
I was very moved by this plaque with Dr King describing his calling to the movement. “I could hear the quiet assurance of an inner voice saying ‘stand up for righteousness, stand up for truth. God will be on your side forever”. I can relate to that experience of receiving a call from the Lord and the reassurance I am up for the task (nothing like what Dr King was asked to do but I could relate on a smaller level). I know that Dr King wasn’t a perfect man but God works through imperfect people to do great things and we can certainly see that with him. This calling reminded me a little bit of Joseph Smith’s communion with God in liberty jail where he worried and turned to God receiving the guidance to go on serving boldly to the end of his life.
This quote also touched my heart. It was written by Dr King from jail in 1963. “when you are…living constantly at tiptoe stance never quite knowing what to expect next, and plagued with inner fears and outer resentments; when you are forever fighting a denigrating sense of ‘nobodiness’; than you will understand why we find it difficult to wait”. I can’t begin to understand what that kind of hate and persecution must have been like but I can relate to small moments of being ‘plagued with inner fears and outer resentments’. Again nothing like what they went through but I guess finding some part of my own life that could relate to these feelings helped the experience at the site feel real and less like a textbook. It certainly took great courage to do what they did and I was humbled to be immersed in their stories for an afternoon.
Leading up to MLK’s tomb there is a long freedom walk with a fountain that goes 4 or 5 levels. Considering it was in the middle of the city it felt contemplative and peaceful. At Ebenezer Baptist Church they have stained glass, which I love, and a recording by Dr King called The Drum Major Instinct. It’s long but I was really moved by his words about the dangers of envy, enmity and selfishness. That if we must fight the temptation to vault ourselves up higher than anyone else. It was just a neat experience to be in the room, hear his voice preaching and think about what I could do to be less selfish and envious. If you are looking for a good listen for your morning devotionals or scripture studies this would be a very good one.
After all the MLK sites it was time for dinner and since I had been dreaming about it after the sample on the food tour I decided to go and get a full size portion of fried chicken at Max’s Wine Dive. As I said in my tour review this is the perfect place to go on a tour for me because I would never have gone into such a place on my own because I don’t drink alcohol and wine is in the name. This fried chicken is the best I’ve ever had. It was so moist and yet still very crispy. It has a little bit of heat from jalapenos in the soak and they give you a chipotle honey which undercuts the heat.. So good! They serve it with mashed potatoes and greens that are also to die for.
I guess the key to the chicken is to fry it on low heat for a long period of time. The waitress said 285 for like 20 minutes. I’m going to try it one of these days because unfortunately Atlanta is too far away for me to get it again anytime soon. One of the yummiest things I’ve ever eaten bar none!
After my dinner I still had time and was feeling pretty energetic so I went to the Atlanta Botanical Gardens. I have never been to a botanical gardens like this but it was huge and featured an outdoor walkway with lush trees.
It was such a stunning place and may have even been the highlight of the trip. I spent about 3 hours there just walking at my own pace, enjoying how beautiful it was. In fact, I even got to meet a frog friend…
All in all it was a fantastic day and for all that I did it didn’t feel rushed or crammed in. Just a fun leisurely day with good history, nature and food. My kind of vacation!