This morning I slept in until about 11:30 and feel greatly improved. Enough so that I found myself looking over old blog entries and making them better. I often am amazed at the mistakes I make after having reviewed my writing several times before posting. Sigh…
Anyway, I found myself reading an old post I had done on the children’s author Roald Dahl. In the post I wrote about rereading Roald Dahl books and how the depiction of women was kind of disturbing. Whether it be the aunts in James and the Giant Peach or the Trunchbill in Matilda most of his books have a beastly villainous women at the center.
As I was thinking about the post I started to ponder about other stories. Snow White? Evil Queen. Cinderella? Wicked Stepmother. Sleeping Beauty? Maleficent. Little Mermaid? Ursula. Wizard of Oz? Wicked Witch. Rapunzel? Gothel. I could go on…
Isn’t that strange? Why do you think that is? It’s especially weird when you think that men have been the more dominating force over the years. The devil is almost always thought of as a man and yet his minions are sultry temptresses or women. A man would seem the more natural choice for a villain in previous eras because they had all the power and control. Strange?
I was talking about this with my sister and she suggested that these characters are almost always middle aged childless women. “Supposedly it is because childress women past their child rearing age were considered a societal threat”. Lonely figures have always been viewed as isolated by choice, scary, and backward especially by children. When I first lived alone you wouldn’t believe the number of people who were horrified by the idea, even today. They expressed concern and amazement that I could do such a thing and be happy.
You look at the idea of the old maid or the crazy lady with all the cats that still persist today. I’ve known girls who have refused to get a cat because they don’t want to be that kind of single woman. One dating advice column I read recently said to girls “Owning More Than One Cat Does Not Mean You Will Die An Old Maid” . Perhaps the refusal (or bad luck) of these middle-aged childless women to conform to social norms made them scary and ripe for fairy tale lore? What do you think?
My other theory is since we all start life in a female, and hopefully being loved by a mother, there is nothing scarier than a woman gone wrong. Its like it takes the maternal instinct and twists it to its evil side. Almost all of the fairy tales with female villains have a female heroine as well. These innocents are young, hopeful and beautiful (fairest in the land…). Ever since I took feminist classes in college I’ve struggled with the whole princess ideology because I loved it so much growing up but I see how it can be harmful to young girls.
I don’t know what I would do if I had a daughter. I certainly didn’t see something like the Little Mermaid as anything but empowering as a girl. I wanted to get out and try my own ways just like Ariel. I wanted to read and be bold like Belle. It never occurred to me that there was these more negative subtle social influences. If they didn’t occur to me until I was in my 20s do they matter?
You look at something like Dorothy who fights evil and saves Oz from the wicked witch and it seems super empowering. Never did I think that all of the people surrounding Dorothy are men except for the wicked witch. What do you guys think? Do these negative female characters affect the way girls grow up (or boys for that matter)? Are they harmful? Are they harmful to adults and male/female interaction (as in the old maid example)?
What are stories that have a male villain? I thought of Tolkien but all the characters in his books are male for the most part so it doesn’t count. Don’t you find that odd that the women is always the villain? Maybe this is part of the reason I didn’t really like fantasy growing up. I didn’t relate to the perfect ingenue and I certainly didn’t get the villainesses.