So life has been a bit challenging for me lately. Healthwise, painwise and otherwise. I just spent most of my day today getting blood drawn and xrays done to try and determine why I am still having so much pain in my ribcage area. Plus, there is the issue of my looming surgery on my eye and everything else.
I have decided all of the stresses in my life are out of my control. The only thing I can control is my response. Working on that.
I started to think about my life and particularly my teen years. I’ve mentioned those times many times on this blog. They were time I relate too because in like your 30s, your teens don’t have a specific job to do but get older. Both times have brought significant health and family challenges and been introspective.
Sometimes I bet you wonder- was the teen Rachel really the girl she describes- itching to be independent and free, insecure and confident at the same time? I was just reading over my high school journal and if anything I’ve toned it down a notch. I was a great person! I really believed in things and I wanted so much out of myself. I still do. Here are some highlights:
“I wish I was more forthright. Oh well! That’s something I can work on” October 19,1998. (I think I’ve worked that one out- what do you think? :) )
“I love late night chats with Mom and Meg. We talked about high school and the kids we knew with problems and why we were different.” October 22, 1998. (Good parenting in my book!)
“I have been accepted. I am so excited! I started to scream and weep when I read the exciting first words ‘we are delighted to inform you…’ I have never been so thrilled, relieved and satisfied, at the same time. For once in my life all my hard work has paid off. I was always somehow disappointed but this time I was not to be thwarted!” Feb 16, 1999
“Maybe my brother and sister are right. Maybe different is better. It certainly is far less stressful…” March 1, 1999
“I’m just ready to go. I’m sick of waiting around. I’m ready to be on my own away from my family. I love my family but I just want to be able to control my own life and do what I want to do when I want to do it. I’m sick of always being tied down by little kids…” March 8, 1999
“I feel worn out and yet there is still so much to be done that I do not feel justified in my fatigue…” March 20, 1999
“I was once asked in class if I could meet anyone who would it be? My answer was decidedly sure. I’d meet Jesus. There is no one who has done more for me and for all mankind and I am so thankful” April 2, 1999
“Today marks under one month until I go away to school. I am so excited. Finally my dream is coming true. Finally I have achieved something in my life that I really wanted. I never thought I would be able to go to BYU. I always thought I was too stupid for that. But surprise, I’m not.” May 21, 1999 (You know Sue on the Middle? That was totally me. I never made anything I tried out for until BYU).
“I am grateful for My Savior and the sacrifice He made for me. I am thankful that he was born on Christmas morning with the sole purpose to save my soul. Christ is the light and moral compass of my life and I love Him with all my heart. I pray that I will always look to Him for everything.” December 25, 1999
“I hope when I’m reading this 30 years from now I will be able to say ‘Rachel goes into any situation undaunted and unafraid of the unpaved way that lies before her” (Still got like 16 years to work on that)
More quotes to come but got to work tonight!